What Men Say, BUT Don’t Really Mean

We all know that men are well known for their straight talking and also for their tell-it-like-it-is-attitude.

But there are also times when ‘YOU gentlemen’ say things that you don’t really mean. And most of these things get you (or have got you) into “serious” trouble. It is imprinted in your DNA and you try and protect your manliness whatever the price……

Let me see and investigate what the most common things you say are and NOT even mean!

Here goes:

>> A discussion comes up about a movie. You haven’t seen it. But you try and blag your way through the discussion where you don’t know NOTHING at all about the film, the cast or even the plot. What is this….? Does it really matter if you can join in to the talk?

>> There he is again, the annoying Pratt from school. He has always been an all around ‘nice’ guy. He was the sports star. The womaniser…they ALL loved him… But you got to be ‘friendly’ don’t you, so you say: “Hi there, let me know when you are free, we need to catch up over a pint soon“. Well, best timing is when hell freezes over.

>> … this is a REAL classic: “Hi Lads, tonight I am only having one drink and then I am off ” - well, I think that most men are incapable of having JUST one drink. Before you know it, you join in to the karaoke madness. Enter an arm-wrestling competition… to end up in the toilet for a “quickie” with the porky barmaid… REMEMBER, that was the one you swore you could never touch!!!

>> Than you come up with the “I want to learn a new language” before? As if! Lets face it, most people have problems to speak proper Queen’s English (places like Facebook and things like mobile phones have only made it worse) and simply, you are not going to become the voice of your generation JUST because you speak two or more languages!

>> … “If you don’t stop it, I call the police”! - Don’t you already know that won’t happen? There be to many questions, to much paperwork, to many repeats of details…so you just leave it…

>> …and there we go… ”I promise, I’ll pay you back” - Honest? There is half a truth here. The intention is there and if you are lucky, you will get it back.

>> … hey! Who are you trying to kid by saying “ Oh, she is just a friend.”… It’s bloody obvious, she is a REAL HOT, BIG BREASTED, NYMPHOMANIAC friend…she is sex on legs.

>> … and than there is “Just for a few seconds, let’s put the tip in to see how it feels”. Yeah right! Isn’t this the usual level of practise for ‘deflowering’ women all over the world? And don’t fool yourself by convincing yourself that there could have been a point of return when you planned to say, “well, ok, it’s not really working for me…to pull it out and get dressed again.

>> “WOW!!!! Is this your new girlfriend? She is gorgeous mate” - to be honest, what else can you say when you are ‘desperate’ since the love in your life ’dropped’ you like a hot potato for a new love… maybe her personal trainer?

>> … and how about this one: “I am sorry, but it’s not you, it’s me!” - Isn’t this the biggest lie ever uttered by men? Have you not worked out that even women are using it now as a way to dump you? The truth being, it is you, but I really no one wants to hurt your feelings. Of course, usually they won’t say, you are to fat, you moan to much, you are crap in bed…and just look at your friends, they are hot stuff… and if only you wouldn’t smell so bad!

>> You are out to eat and than what do you do when ordering your meal? You say “What is the hottest curry on your menu? - and I want it NOW!” - THAT IS DESPERATE! You think you are showing manliness? But all you do is trying to convince yourself that shoving down the vindaloo is the BEST way to make sure to show your male dominance.

>> … there is a loop-hole in the dating system that men are very aware off for years. They like bragging about the shagging in the back of the car. But they say “ I am definitely not like the other guys. I never kiss and tell.” - of course, the last thing they like to brag about is kissing…how BORING!

I am sure I have missed out on a thing or two, so please leave your comment ( both gents and ladies ) and we will add it to the list.

How About a Threesome?

You and your man. You are both all about having fun in the bedroom. And of course, which has lead you to a lot of experimentation. You’ve been up for it so far, as it’s always been about mutual respect and pleasure. But now, where you just started to feel like you both had really found your “groove“, he just comes out with his ‘desire. He wants to try a threesome. And that with another female.

BUT how do you respond to his request? You just don’t know? Aren’t you ALL about fulfilling his fantasies? You are not even sure how this makes you feel about him? You ask yourself if it is possible that he is just looking to hook up with another girl?

He continues staring at you. He is waiting for a response. And he wants it right now!

What would you do? How would/did you handle this?

Flowers, where do they come from?

When you buy flowers, do you actually ever think about where they come from?

Flowers have a ‘dark’ history. £ 2.2.billion are spend on flowers each year. An abundance of high quality, cheap flowers that are found in our supermarkets are mainly grown in East Africa by female workers. They are pressurised to meet the UK’s demand. Forced to overtime, sexual harassment and low pay.

The below animated film takes a looks at where the flowers are grown and where they come from. The film also shows the effects the industry is having on the environment as well as the workers.

Workers are often exposed to highly toxic pesticides and chemicals to increase productivity.

Did you know that exposure to pesticides causes seizures, blindness and leukaemia? - AND it also destroys the female reproductive system. Not only does the use of pesticides has devastating effects on the environment and the local ecosystem, the livelihood of local people is also further damaged by the overuse of water by flower farms.

Did you know that a flower is 90% water?

In effect, the flower industry is transporting water from the driest region in the world to one of the wettest regions in the world.

When did you last buy flowers?

The film is written and Directed by Paul Heard and Rebecca Swain.

Roots - Where do flowers come from?

Related article:
Toxic Chemicals in Cut Flowers | Dont Smell The Flowers | David Suzuki

Related links:
Women Working Worldwide
Pesticide Action Network

Aphrodisiacs - Whats Your Favourite One?

This caught our eye. An interesting approach to getting the MESSAGE across. Video starts of promoting Orgasim Day but if you visit the link below, you will see that the video, then moves on to the much more important subject of why we really should have less meat in our diet.

To Read the article on Vegan Aphrodisiacs Click Here

Bananas — A fruit with a sexy shape, bananas are said to contain chemicals that can lift your mood and make you more confident. Bananas are also famously high in potassium, a nutrient that aids in sex hormone production and boosts energy.

Watch more videos at PETA.org

Masturbation, Practise Makes Perfect!

One of the activities everyone enjoys is Masturbation. But how many are comfortable talking about it with friends, their family doctor and not to mention their partners. This is mainly due to social taboos remembered by “facial expressions of discomfort” by parents and most probably sex educating teachers. However, as most of us enjoy masturbation we are able to ignore the discouragement and we continue doing it into adulthood, even though many men worry that the ‘act’ may be unhealthy on some level. After all, how can something that gives so much pleasure not be bad for you?

Masturbation is not bad for you, and as long as it isn’t taking over and interfering with your work performance or taking precedence over the routine activities in your life, there’s no reason for concern. Masturbation won’t decrease your sex drive, neither will it cause any health problems.

If you masturbate to a point where it’s interfering with work or your personal relationships, I would say that it’s probably time to cut back a little and maybe speak to a professional about underlying issues that could be the cause for it.

I am sure you already know this, but ejaculation followed as a result of masturbation is no different than ejaculation followed as a result of sexual intercourse. Your sperm count would be the same in either case, so there is no decline in male fertility having frequent sexual encounters, therefore it be the same for frequent masturbation. Having said that, masturbation could conceivably affect the quality of his sperm., if a man has a low sperm count to begin with. If you are actively trying to father children, you should refrain from masturbation when your partner is ovulating to make sure that your sperm is of the highest quantity and quality of sperm possible.

Some men are dissatisfied with their performance and they want to ejaculate more forcefully. There’s an easy solution. If you spend some quality time strengthening your PC (pubococcygeus) muscle, you will be amazed what a difference the exercises can make. Of course, don’t expect miracles, as it won’t happen overnight. Remember, practise makes perfect. It will happen eventually. Should you be concerned about ’volume’, try to reduce the frequency with which you masturbate and refrain from ejaculating for a couple of days. That should make a difference and you’ll see definite results the next time you do it.

Masturbation is one of the few pleasures in life that is good for you and it is a perfectly acceptable activity. Don’t dwell on all the negative connotations you were exposed to as a kid, just forget about them.

Masturbation is a perfectly acceptable activity, and one of the few pleasures in life that is actually good for you. Forget all the negativity you were exposed to as a child. You can and should enjoy it without worrying about any risks, as there aren’t any. It has been proven that masturbation is good for sexual tension, migraines and a lot of other aches and pains. And if this isn’t proof enough for you, it is also known that frequent masturbation (seven times or more a week) is good for maintaining good prostate health and reducing the chances of developing prostate cancer.

Final note:
I think these are good enough excuses, don’t you think? Trust me, Masturbation is healthy!

Penis, how small is yours?

Men fret about their penis size even in this supposedly enlightened century. Even though most have more than enough to perform well as lovers they are worried that they are “too small“ and they feel that “MORE WOULD BE BETTER”.

Other than surgery there is little men can do to increase their penis size and I find it puzzling that so many men are ‘worried’ about ‘their length. But than that is how a lot of men are and they wish they had ‘a couple of inches more’.

When a man discovers his penis at an early age, he becomes fascinated by it and consciously or unconsciously it becomes one of the most important things in the whole world. But at some stage he starts wondering if his isn’t rather ‘small’? He looks at his dads, his older brother, men in the changing rooms and becomes anxious if one day he will be as big as that. Throughout life he will always be a bit sensitive about his size, believing that it would be better if it could JUST be that bit longer.

Us women aren’t attracted to a man because of his penis size, even though the average male continuous to convince himself that we are. An ‘average’ female can’t understand where the ‘penis size obsession’ comes from, as we do know “penis size does NOT matter”.

The issue is also, that when a man looks at his own penis, he sees it in the foreshortened view and without a doubt, the angle at which he looks down makes his penis seem shorter than it really is. If he looked at another man’s penis, there wouldn’t be the foreshortened effect, therefore the other guys penis would seem a little bit better ‘endowed’.

It is very important to realise the facts about penis size. Virtually every man has a quick glance and mental check on each naked man he sees. A comparison of this sort can make him feel a bit inadequate. It is all a question of perspective.

I could go on about measurements of the non-erect and the erect penis, but than again I can’t stress enough that it doesn’t matter how long or how short, how thick or how thin your penis is, “size doesn’t matter”. The vagina has the most remarkable capacity and will accommodate itself to any penis shape, length or size…but I am sure you already know this.

Final note:
It’s not the size that matters, it’s what you do with it.

Puppet on a string | Eurovision 1967 | Sandy Shaw

No. 1 in Eurovision Song Contest in 1967 Vienna, Austria. Still the same sound, 40 years later and Sandy is still performing barefoot after all these years. I remember listening to this with my Dad when I was little(ish)

Puppet on a string

The message is in the words………

Lyrics - PUPPET ON A STRING - 27/04/1967

I wonder if one day that, you’ll say that, you care
If you say you love me madly I’ll gladly be there
Like a puppet on a string

Love is just like a merry-go-round
With all the fun of the fair
One day I’m feeling down on the ground
Then I’m up in the air
Are you leading me on
Tomorrow will you be gone

I wonder if one day that, you’ll say that, you care
If you say you love me madly I’ll gladly be there
Like a puppet on a string

I may win on the round-a-bout
Then I’ll lose on the swings
In or out there is never a doubt
Just who’s pulling the strings
I’m all tied up in you
But where’s it leading me to

I wonder if one day that, you’ll say that, you care
If you say you love me madly I’ll gladly be there
Like a puppet on a string

I wonder if one day that, you’ll say that, you care
If you say you love me madly I’ll gladly be there
Like a puppet on a string
Like a puppet on a string

What is LOVE?

Love is the unconditional acceptance of all there is - that means No judgements. If you are not judging anything, you will accept everything. If you accept everything you’ll be loving everything.

The acceptance of whatever happens is love.
The acceptance of whatever happens is wisdom.
The acceptance of whatever happens is peace.

The acceptance of whatever happens means you are in the flow of life.

Pat O’Bryan wants to know. He is more than curious. So he decides to take a video camera, places it in a café and explores the ultimate question “What is LOVE?“ by interviewing his friends (including Joe Vitale), acquaintances, and complete stranger. Just watch the video below and see for yourself.

What is LOVE?

Check out Pat’s and also Joe’s links below. You may be surprised!
www.patobryan.com
www.blog.mrfire.com

Some more interesting reading:
Love - What Is It Anyway?
The Wooden Bowl | Sometimes Grandfather Had a Tear in His Eye

A loving person lives in a loving world. A hostile person lives in a hostile world and remember! Everyone you meet is your mirror.

“What is Love”? - It be interesting to hear your definition.