Archive for March, 2008
Mar
02
Posted by Viola
I Love You | Inspiration By Roy Croft
I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you.
I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me.
I love you for the part of me that you bring out.
I love you for putting your hand into my heaped up heart and for passing over all of the foolish things you can’t help dimly seeing there, and for drawing out into the light all of the beautiful belongings that no one else has looked quite far enough to find.
I love you because you have done more than any creed could have done to make me good and more than any fate could have done to make me happy.
You have done it without a touch, without a word, without a sign.
You have done it by being yourself - Perhaps that is what being a friend means, after all.
Go On, Be Inspired: Inspiring Pages
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Mar
02
Posted by Viola
Relationships - You Are Not Alone
Well, I guess this one is a ‘classic’, so listen carefully, as you may notice similarities…
Have you ever been in a relationship where you just KNEW that it wasn’t going to work?
BUT, you loved the guy. You tried everything though to make this relationship work.
Do you remember that regardless of all your efforts neither of you became happier or more fulfilled? But you did try everything to make it work!
You hung in there… You took matters into your own hands and decided to finally break things off.
I know, secretly you hoped that he would change. He only needs to realise that you are dead serious about leaving it all behind…all those years for nothing… your memories… your dreams… all shattered!
You felt worse than ever ending it and wondered whether you are doing the ‘right’ thing.
What would you do IF you were having a similar experience in your love life? If your relationship wasn’t working….and while you were trying to put things right they would only get worse?
What would you do IF it lead you to more of the same unfulfilling experience? … experiences that would push you and the man you love further apart?
Does any of this sound familiar to you?
Note: You are not alone if you have been through this before or if you are in a similar situation as a woman. Even I have been there and could tell you a thing or two and I assure you, it is possible to create a positive and lasting relationship… PROMISE!
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Mar
02
Posted by Viola
I Want Your Body - I Want It NOW!
I wonder what you think after reading this? It made quite an interesting read and it does make you wonder what women AND also men REALLY like…
Well, I thought it was worth posting. Mind you, I am really not sure if a woman wrote this?
… But please, please just fuck me already. Honestly, I appreciate your thoughtfulness. I like that you want to take things slow. I can totally get behind the idea of emotional connection, but dearjesusinheaven, FUCK ME. We’ve done dinner and drinks. We’ve gone dancing. We’ve cuddled and watched a movie. I’m wearing a low cut shirt and you’ve been staring at my breasts all night. Goodgodalmighty, get to it and fuck me (… read more)
Mar
01
Posted by Viola
Have You Found Mr. Right?
Women who are in loving long-term relationships have quite a few emotional as well as behavioural love traits in common.
What I find fascinating is what those traits are, as well as the understandings and the positive and attractive response that they naturally lead women to.
Looking into and researching human behaviour and psychology for years, I’ve come to find some answers. Many women are holding on to ‘unconscious belief’ about relationships, men and of course love. I think that we all agree that this belief for sure makes their love lives more difficult, far more painful and definitely more frustrating. Don’t you agree, this is completely counterproductive?
So, tell me. What is it?
Women belief that they would have their ‘perfect love life’, once they found MR. RIGHT. To make matters even worse, they belief that once MR. RIGHT comes along who is open, loving, understanding, giving and mature enough to make things work, EVERYTHING will JUST fall into place and as a result love will flow effortlessly. Does this sound true and makes sense to you?
Well, I got news for you. That’s not how it works. In fact, 95.4% of women do NOT meet that great guy! So, to tell the truth, where does that leave you and your love life? To be honest, to me that means you have a choice!
What would you do? Would you wait for the 4.6% chance for MR. RIGHT to suddenly appear and rush you of your feet? As than, of course you wouldn’t have to worry about all those annoying ‘little’ issues that other women have to deal with in their relationships. OR, would you actually choose to take the time to ‘learn’ WHAT is really going on with the other 95.4% of men? … and once you know, you start dating and than relationships and love work for you…. NO MATTER WHAT!!
Well, the choice is yours. What would you decide?
Mar
01
Posted by Viola
When I Loved Myself Enough
Every word and thought adds to your life experience. Thoughts produce emotions and emotions result in how you feel about a certain event that happens in your life. Even when two people look at exactly the same event, they have opposite feelings about it. With the thoughts you choose to think, with the words you say, you are creating your very own subjective reality, moment by moment both to yourself as well as others and your subjective reality impinges on the physical reality through the power of Spirit.
To most people it is like a foreign language and they do not realise that they can change their actions… feelings… thoughts… beliefs… AND their identity and they are rather perceived as the outcome of influences upon him. People feel ‘moulded’ and in effect with few choices. Most think that life just ‘happens’ to them and everything is always OTHER’S fault. But then the truth is, that everyone is responsible for their life and for the quality of his life - therefore, there is no reason why we can’t change things around. You have the ability to manifest your dreams, to take life to a new conscious level.
Recent events have proven a tremendous desire for more and more people in the world wanting peace in their lives and many people have become aware that by having peace in the world, we first have to make peace with ourselves and our own lives. Only than will we be capable of making such a transformation. Lets face it, our experience in the world reflects our inner state - we mirror our internal state… our resistance and fears… our acceptance and love… and as a group, we also mirror our consciousness in world events…that’s the reality… I think that it is our personal responsibility to become aware of our own contribution we add to the group consciousness as that is the only way to create a world with better and more opportunities for ourselves, each other and our loved ones, which will ultimately lead to a better world for everyone.
So what wars are going on inside of us? What are the purposes and goals that we hold so dearly? Some of them we may have brought into our life or felt most strongly as a child or young person about and they were very often accepted rather than wanted. By trying to achieve them, we may forget about them or maybe even suppress them as we rather opted for a safer solution. We still want to “play” and playing the safe game is a very sad conflict, as we have become somebody different. We become a substitute for our true self.
As I already said, first we have to make peace with ourselves if we want to contribute toward peace in the world. We cannot love others unconditionally if we are not able to love ourselves genuinely. We cannot forgive and stop judging others before forgiving ourselves and accepting ourselves JUST as we are. Only by forgiving ourselves, we can more easily forgive someone else. We clearly don’t love ourselves, if we haven’t learned to forgive others. Forgiving yourself means that you “take back” the energy that you given away in the first place and as it frees you to be yourself again you will be a new, happier and also wiser you. By loving yourself, we and others won’t ever need forgiveness as we are able to accept all, the past, the present and the future for what it is without making any judgements.
This is something to remember:
There is absolutely no beauty that we could perceive or create if it weren’t already within us.