Sex at The Workplace - Are You Doomed To Be Slutty?
Sexuality?
Sexy clothing?
Sexual fantasies?
Sexual harassment?
Most work places are full of this kind of thing. And of course, it won’t stop being forbidden or denied.
What happens when you feel the energy, the attraction to these creative, smart, attractive, handsome and/or good looking people you are working with? You are working very closely on projects together, have dead-lines and than you find “these” thoughts racing through your mind? No doubt, some of us have had their ‘own’ experience with this stuff. Not a lot you can do to stop these thoughts racing through your head is there?
Have you ever noticed what a great ‘ice-breaker’ a ‘flirty’ joke can be? It could also be a ‘great’ end to your career though.
And how about these men who are ‘allowed’ to ‘groom’ themselves. They can be as attractive as they want. But what happens if a women do? Aren’t they likely to be doomed ‘slutty’?
What are the rules?
Who’s made the rules?
Why were those rules made?
Where are the lines?
What are the boundaries?
… and WHAT do you think some of the issues are why this is happening?
Masturbation! A ‘tricky’ subject for some women, although most enjoy “doing it” on a regular basis. And I tell you, there are only a few who would be comfortable with openly talking about it, and I mean not even with their significant other.
From my personal research I find that quite often this has to do with how we have been brought up. Being taught that it is inappropriate and unnecessary, YES, we have even been told that it a dirty “act”.
Isn’t it lucky that our mindsets are fully reversible? I promise you, this is easier than you think.
Go on, all she needs a bit of encouragement. And yes, of course a man who is willing to let her choose the pace. Try it and it won’t be long before she will discover how much masturbation is a turn-on for the two of you.
Here is a list of how to say “I Love You” in different languages. Of course, there must be more ways, so feel free to add to the list.
Afrikaans - Ek het jou lief
Albanian - Te dua
Arabic - Ana behibak (to a male)
Arabic - Ana behibek (to a female)
Armenian - Yes kez sirumen
Bambara - M’bi fe
Bangla - Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian - Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya - Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian - Obicham te
Cambodian - Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese - Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan - T’estimo
Cherokee - Tsi ge yu i
Cheyenne - Ne mohotatse
Chichewa - Ndimakukonda
Corsican - Ti tengu caru (to a male)
Creol - Mi aime jou
Croatian - Volim te
Czech - Miluji te
Danish - Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch - Ik hou van jou
English - I love you
Esperanto - Mi amas vin
Estonian - Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian - Afgreki’
Faroese - Eg elski teg
Farsi - Doset daram
Filipino - Mahal kita
Finnish - Mina rakastan sinua
French - Je t’aime, Je t’adore
Frisian - Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic - Ta gra agam ort
Georgian - Mikvarhar
German - Ich liebe dich
Greek - S’agapo
Gujarati - Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon - Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian - Aloha Au Ia`oe
Hebrew - Ani ohev otah (to a female)
Hebrew - Ani ohev et otha (to a male)
Hiligaynon - Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi - Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong - Kuv hlub koj
Hopi - Nu’ umi unangwa’ta
Hungarian - Szeretlek
Icelandic - Eg elska tig
Ilonggo - Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian - Saya cinta padamu
Inuit - Negligevapse
Irish - Taim i’ ngra leat
Italian - Ti amo
Japanese - Aishiteru
Kannada - Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan - Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili - Nakupenda
Konkani - Tu magel moga cho
Korean - Sarang Heyo
Latin - Te amo
Latvian - Es tevi miilu
Lebanese - Bahibak
Lithuanian - Tave myliu
Luxembourgeois - Ech hun dech gäer
Malay - Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam - Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese - Wo ai ni
Marathi - Me tula prem karto
Mohawk - Kanbhik
Moroccan - Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl - Ni mits neki
Navaho - Ayor anosh’ni
Norwegian - Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan - Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan - Inaru Taka
Papiamento - Mi ta stimabo
Persian - Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin - Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish - Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese - Eu te amo
Romanian - Te iubesc
Russian - Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic - Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian - Volim te
Setswana - Ke a go rata
Sindhi - Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux - Techihhila
Slovak - Lu`bim ta
Slovenian - Ljubim te
Spanish - Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili - Ninapenda wewe
Swedish - Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German - Ich lieb Di
Surinam - Mi lobi joe
Tagalog - Mahal kita
Taiwanese - Wa ga ei li
Tahitian - Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil - Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu - Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai - Chan rak khun (to a male)
Thai - Phom rak khun (to a female)
Turkish - Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian - Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu - mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese - Anh ye^u em (to a female)
Vietnamese - Em ye^u anh (to a male)
Welsh - ‘Rwy’n dy garu di
Yiddish - Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba - Mo ni fe
Law of Attraction Singles - Journey of Finding The Love of Your Life
I’ve had an e-mail today of Jonathon asking me to add the link of the www.lawofattractionsingles.com website and thought it may be a good idea. It looks like a pretty good site to me to make friends or even find the love of your life.
I was just going to add one thing. If you are sure and serious about meeting someone and having fun in doing so, than it may be an idea of adding a photo to your profile. Of course, a smiling one J It is easy to do and as you can imagine, members with photos get better responses as it is an easy way of showing prospective ‘mates’ your character as well as your personality. Not to mention that adding a picture creates a higher level of trust and kind of shows that you are serious and committed.
I know that some are worried about there ‘appearance’. But don’t worry, there is someone out there for everyone. We are all unique. We are all special and beautiful. People are attracted to a variety of characteristics. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Are you aware that most men can climax without any problems? But what about us women? We just aren’t build that way. Most women have to learn how to reach an Orgasm. That’s a fact!!
Most people don’t realise that if you happen to be a woman, ‘coming’ isn’t all that easy. That’s another fact!
Let’s face it, in these days, wherever you look, be it reading a book, watch a film, look at teen and women’s mags, all ‘paint’ a very nice picture showing today’s females as hot, sex on legs, raring to go, simply orgasmic without any effort.
So how about the women who are neither of the above? And believe me, the number is higher than you imagine. At it’s very best, the media is unhelpful and at it’s worse, the picture the media ‘paints’ is painful and also damaging for most. Teen’s and 20-plus have the tendency to believe that there is something seriously wrong with them. And if they can’t climax to order, they even feel frigid. This is far from the truth. The fact is that mostly they are absolutely normal.
Most younger women don’t ‘manage’ to reach an orgasm until some considerable time after having started sexual activities. AND, if and when they do ‘come’, they do so in a variety of different ways.
Would you believe that:
=> 47 % of women climax for the first time through masturbation
=> 32 % of women climax through sexual intercourse
=> 20 % of women climax through petting
=> 1 % of women climax whilst sleeping
=> the most common age for a woman to reach her first orgasm is 18 years, BUT it could also be as late (or even later) as 40 years…..
I found that one generation away doctors believed that a high number of the female population simply could not climax. The reason being that in sexual medicine, doctors had little or no training at all. And also, they are to embarrassed about sex themselves, not to mention talking about it. They try everything to avoid confrontation, avoid having a discussion with their patients. At that time, from a medical point of view, most medical professionals didn’t rate the importance of the female orgasm, as for an example, in order to get pregnant, the female didn’t need to orgasm.
I would say that if you happen to experience difficulty in reaching that elusive orgasm, if you don’t climax or find it hard to, it’s a good idea “practising” and “exploring” it yourself. And PLEASE, don’t feel it isn’t something you shouldn’t be doing. Masturbation is the “key” in order to learn exactly what pressures, what rhythm you need/like/prefer or even how to stimulate your clitoris to reach the longed for orgasm.
It may feel embarrassing at first, but once you have “learned” how to climax, show it to your partner. Show him what he needs to do to make you ‘come’. Learn to communicate with him. Tell him about your feelings. How you like your body being touched. And if it makes it easier at first, when you can’t express yourself, use caresses. Once you get comfortable and relaxed with your partner, you will love it!
I’d be interested hearing from you and your experiences.
Deep inside, at our innermost core, we are all aware that we are love itself. We all have an amazing capacity to love, we are the source of love. Our minds may give us a million reasons and deny the fact, but remember, you are not your mind. Out from the core of our being emanate the most powerful, the most awesome and divine loving vibration. But sometimes this is hard to understand as we are stuck with some old feelings and also negative thinking patterns which we may have learned from others.
Try to imagine that you are taking out all the negative from inside yourself, the negative that surrounds your heart. We all carry around judgement. Grab the heaviness… the guilt… the shame… and let go of it all! Send it back to where it came from in the first place. Throw it all deeply into the ground and let Mother Earth ‘recycle’ it for you, where it is consumed with love. Open up to love and your heart will open wider. Practise this every day and you will soon notice a change in your every day thinking and in your every day life. You can focus this warm, beautiful, loving feeling into the people who touch your life and become a bigger channel of love for others. Our hearts are beaming with golden-white light and we ARE the infinite supply of love.
Become aware of how good it feels to love. The more you do that, the more you open up for more love for yourself. Let go of how you think and enjoy the feelings that flow through you and watch your whole life shift and transform.
“One important source of unhappiness is the habit of
putting off living to some fictional future date.
Men and women are constantly making
themselves unhappy because in deferring
their lives to the future they lose sight
of the present and its golden opportunities for rich living.”