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Archive for July, 2008

Jul
17

Are You Afraid of Commitment?

Posted by Viola

Are You Afraid of Commitment?

=> How do you feel when someone tells you “I love you” for the first time?
=> After a couple of months dating someone, how many of your friends, family members, colleagues do you introduce them to?
=> How much of your time do you put into a relationship?
=> How do you feel spending time with people who been married for some time?
=> Would you want to change the person you are dating before you commit yourself?
=> The person you are dating becomes needy whilst going through a rough patch, what would you do?
=> Could you see yourself cheating on someone at this point in your life?

To take the test click here: Are You Afraid of Commitment?

It be nice if you shared your answers with us.

Jul
16

Cheating, Infidelity, and Affairs

Posted by Viola

Cheating, Infidelity, and Affairs

What is there to say?

Catch your boyfriend cheating?
Stuck in a bad marriage?
Don’t know how to end an affair?
How to trust your boyfriend.
What is cheating?

Jul
16

HOPE - Who am I to say

Posted by Viola

HOPE - Who am I to say

Submitted by Kelly Rowland

This video was posted on December 3rd 2007 - At the time at my posting it has been viewed: 533,769 times. Quite impressive for someone’s first self-made video.

I am sure this video will find many who can relate to it.

Lyrics

Love of my life, my soulmate
You’re my best friend
Part of me like breathing
Now half of me is left

I don’t know anything at all
Who am I to say you love me
I don’t know anything at all
& who am I to say you need me

Color me blue I’m lost in you
Don’t know why I’m still waiting
Many moons have come & gone
Don’t know why I’m still searching

Don’t know anything at all
& who am I to say you love me
I don’t know anything at all
& who am I to say you need me

Hmmm hmmm mmm
Uhhh oohhh aahhh
Hooo aahhh ohh ohhh

Now you’re a song I love to sing
Never thought it feels so free
Now I know what’s meant to be
& that’s okay with me

But who am I to say you love me
& who am I to say you need me
& who am I to say you love me

Mmmm Hmmm

I don’t know anything at all
& who am I to say you love me
I don’t know anything at all
& who am I to say you need me
I don’t know anything at all

I don’t know anything at all
I don’t know anything at all
I don’t know anything at all

Jul
16

Anthony Robbins Quote | Quality of Life

Posted by Viola

Anthony Robbins Quote | Quality of Life

If you don’t set a baseline standard for what you’ll accept in life, you’ll find it’s easy to slip into behaviors and attitudes or a quality of life that’s far below what you deserve.

~ Anthony Robbins

Jul
14

Just Five More Minutes

Posted by Viola

Just Five More Minutes

Author Unknown

While at the park one day, a woman sat down next to a man on a bench near a playground.

“That’s my son over there,” she said, pointing to a little boy in a red sweater who was gliding down the slide.

“He’s a fine looking boy” the man said. “That’s my daughter on the bike in the white dress.”

Then, looking at his watch, he called to his daughter. “What do you say we go, Melissa?”

Melissa pleaded, “Just five more minutes, Dad. Please? Just five more minutes.”

The man nodded and Melissa continued to ride her bike to her heart’s content. Minutes passed and the father stood and called again to his daughter. “Time to go now?”

Again Melissa pleaded, “Five more minutes, Dad. Just five more minutes.”

The man smiled and said, “OK.”

“My, you certainly are a patient father,” the woman responded.

The man smiled and then said, “Her older brother Tommy was killed by a drunk driver last year while he was riding his bike near here. I never spent much time with Tommy and now I’d give anything for just five more minutes with him. I’ve vowed not to make the same mistake with Melissa.

She thinks she has five more minutes to ride her bike. The truth is, I get Five more minutes to watch her play.”

Life is all about making priorities, what are your priorities?
Give someone you love 5 more minutes of your time today!

Jul
13

Pole Dancing in Santiago’s subway | Sexy Stripper arrested

Posted by Viola

Pole Dancing in Santiago’s subway | Sexy Stripper arrested

Reuters: Michelle Carlile-Alkhouri reports.

Jul 11 - Chilean professional Pole dancer and stripper Monserrat Morilles (26) on a political inquest.

For a whole week Morilles is trying to challenge the prudishness of society. I could think of some better ways, but I suppose that’s one way of doing it. She sure got some attention from the commuters in her skimpy underwear, but I don’t think that everyone in Santiago’s Subway agreed.

Jul
12

What Kind of Flirt are You?

Posted by Viola

What Kind of Flirt are You?

** What “technique” do you use to lure someone in?
** What’s “your” best way to start a conversation with a cute stranger?
** What “setting” do you feel most comfortable flirting with someone?
** And how would you react, what would you say if a very sexy stranger accidentally spills a drink on you?
** You’re having a conversation with someone quite hot at a party. What would you do to keep them interested?

Take the test to see “How Good a Flirt You Are“… add it to myspace, share it on Facebook, or if you have a BLOG or website you can also share “What Kind of Flirt You are” by copying and pasting the code at the end of the quiz.

Well, of course I am not going to tell you what kind of flirt I am. ;-)

To join the quiz click on the link: “What Kind of Flirt are You?”

Jul
11

Bed 4 Sale!!

Posted by Viola

Bed 4 Sale!!

Submitted by Jason Fitzgerald

I am trying to sell a bed frame I recently purchased. I ordered it over the Internet - it was a bit of an impulse buy. Now that it’s arrived, I realize that it doesn’t go with any of my other oak furniture. I can’t send it back. The bed frame is 100% hand carved and imported from India . The mattress is orthopedic, brand new, and hasn’t been slept on.

I thought I would give you first dibs, since it would go so nicely with the items that currently makeup your bedroom motif.

But if you know of anyone else who might be interested please forward this, as I’d like to sell it ASAP.

I haven’t named a price yet, but if you’re interested we’ll work something out. Anyway, have a look below and let me know………………

Click on the picture for larger image:

Bed 4 Sale

Jul
08

Change is the Law of Life | John F. Kennedy

Posted by Viola

Change is the Law of Life | John F. Kennedy

Submitted by Kennedy Johnson

Not only was I named after him - he is also one of my Hero’s. His ‘message’ will go on…

Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.

- John F. Kennedy, 1917-1963, 35th President of the United States

Jul
07

House For Sale - Husband Included

Posted by Viola

House For Sale - Husband Included

How ‘faithful’ are you? Are you a cheater?

Infidelity is on the rise… Married BUT cheating!!!

I am sure there are many men (AND women) out there who have been there before and find that it doesn’t only create old familiar issues, it creates new once also. Of course, for some it’s a very confusing situation. But for others polyamory (more than one intimate partner at the same time) seems to work well.

How about you?

=> What meets your needs and desires?
=> What should a socially accepted relationship look like?
=> How do you feel about ‘open relationships’ versus ‘customised relationships?
=> Do you believe cheating is a SIN?
=> What about your own story? Do you have one to tell?
=> What’s your personal experience?
=> How would you feel being the ‘other’, the ‘bit on the side’?
=> What is there at the end of it?
=> How do you feel about polyamory?

And that also leaves the question about marriage. Do we really need government and legal institutions to confirm to us that our marriage is official?

I’d like to hear your thoughts/experiences/feelings on this - and believe me, I also have a story to tell.

Related reading:
Rita Watson: New rules for open marriage