No-Strings Attached | The grass is always greener on the other side
Submitted by Katy Burns
It’s shocking, nut more than half of all married British men have or have had no-strings attached sex.
Hard to believe, but thousands of cheating spouses have signed up to websites like www.maritalaffair.co.uk or www.illicitencounters.com which make it easier than ever to arrange “extra-marital sex” activities in secret.
The Sun reporter Laura Stott went undercover to reveal the “dirty” world of husbands and to expose the many stories, the many lies they tell their wives.
Men feel trapped in their marriages, that’s why they are looking for affairs, for no-strings attached sex and oddly enough, some men enjoy sex especially with other married women knowing that their wives are busy enjoying family weekends a survey revealed.
“EveryTwoWeeks” is a social group which is based in London. The group has been running for over 4 years now with over 4,800+ members. The membership is free. Social events are in London and are held twice a months.
After work drinks
Salsa Dancing
Dinner Parties
Roller Disco
Picnics
Coach Trips
Boat Parties
BBQ’s / Braai
Movie Nights
Valentines Parties
New Years Eve Party
Walks in London
Nightclubbing Events
10 Pin Bowling… and much more.
Visit www.everytwoweeks.com , browse through the gallery and see what’s been going on. Go on, you know you want to.
Your first love. Did you feel the nervousness? Being overwhelmed with the desire to spend every single second with that person. Constant nagging doubts that the bubble would burst and end any minute?
Do you remember the exact moment when you were holding hands? Kissed? … Touched? … and who knows, possibly made love?
Do you remember that time?
Are you sure? You don’t? ? To be honest, I don’t really remember it either.
Lets be serious for a minute. The first moment, the first blush of love is not like anything else you experience in life. Well, of course, I am not denying that there is always bungee jumping, white water rafting, sky diving and maybe for some even swimming with sharks.
To me, when you are in love, you see the world through totally different eyes. You care for someone more than you care for yourself. You feel complete. You never want to be with anyone else except for the one you feel this overwhelming hot desire.
Lets face it. I am sure that most would love to have just one love for their entire life. Some like one to many, where others love with getting nothing in return. And than there are those who are lonely all of their lives and they may find comfort in doing something else.
Love is like an emotional roller coaster and whatever circumstances you find yourself in, it is YOU who’s in the front car.
When love ‘turns up’, it can do that in many ways and you never know when the love arrow hits you straight in your heart.
Love can knock on your door at any age. At any time. At any place. Love can leave you breathless.
If you have a love in your life, be nice to them. Be kind to them. There are many ways to show your love. Show them how much you love them in your own special way.
For the once who are without love. Do not be discouraged. Love seldom comes to you, so seek it out, find it.
You’re in a relationship that fills you with pain, worry, doubt, anxiety and restlessness. You suddenly suffer from sleepless nights. Biting your fingernails. You sit most nights drinking alcohol and smoking.
Wasn’t it just glorious when you first met? You just couldn’t believe how intelligent, funny and loving he was. You got to know each other. He turned into an angry, distant and domineering man. But you were so insanely in love with him and you accepted any humiliation.
You forgot how to be yourself. You were always alert to his moods. You were helpful and yes, even eager to change. But the day came and you couldn’t take it any longer. You moved out. Well, for one day and than you were back.
Not a lot changed. You still craved affection as well as communication. The way he was hooked on computer games and playing non-stop drives you insane. You can’t stand his lack of needing to be with you. To communicate with you. The missing intimacy. The loneliness and the feeling of sexual deprivation.
You feel dependent, where you want to feel relaxed, be at peace. Change your focus. But you choose to blame yourself, after all, it isn’t really his fault.
Does this sound like you?
Love addiction or emotional neediness is a toxic interplay which I also class as co-dependency. A dysfunctional approach to relationships.
=> Love addicts have overpowering emotional needs
=> Love addicts are unable to love themselves, as they have an empty space within they cannot nurture, calm or soothe
=> Love addicts don’t have a clue who they are
=> Love addicts dislike who they think they are
=> Love addicts have no self-esteem
=> Love addicts rely on other’s approval
=> Love addicts rely on other’s love
=> Love addicts have the need for attention
=> Love addicts have a strong need for passion (mistaking passion for love)
=> Love addicts are exhausting
=> Love addicts can humiliate themselves
=> Love addicts can adapt to whatever their lover admires
=> Love addicts can easily accept any kind of abuse
=> Love addicts are obsessed
=> Love addicts may abuse alcohol or food (many are alcoholics or suffer from eating disorders)
=> Love addicts medicate their pain by going shopping
=> Love addicts are destructive
If a love addict feels rejected, he/she may choose to constantly send text messages, call the other person, become a stalker, or even try and stop a new relationship.
Love addiction is a desperate cry for help! Love addiction is a compulsive behaviour, but I guess all addictions are. Lets face it, all addictions are exhausting and of course deeply destructive. If you are a love addict, you know deep down that you are scared of being alone. Being without your lover. Where in reality you know that you want to be FREE.
So how about YOU? Are YOU a love addict?
Final thought: Remember, the cause of your unhappiness is not your relationship, that is just the symptom!
Ever wondered if your true love is cheating on you?
Submitted by Katy Web
Have you ever wonder if your true love is cheating online
Identify someone by their email address
Locate someone by their social security number.
Locate someone without social security number.
Neighbour Check
Locate someone by their email address.
Email Trace Report
Background Report
Online Risk Assessment
Internet or Chat Room Romance
What would you do if you knew that your true love is cheating on you?
Question is, would you like to know or choose not to know?
If you doubt and want some answers, click on the following link: www.emailrevealer.com
=> How do you feel when someone tells you “I love you” for the first time?
=> After a couple of months dating someone, how many of your friends, family members, colleagues do you introduce them to?
=> How much of your time do you put into a relationship?
=> How do you feel spending time with people who been married for some time?
=> Would you want to change the person you are dating before you commit yourself?
=> The person you are dating becomes needy whilst going through a rough patch, what would you do?
=> Could you see yourself cheating on someone at this point in your life?
** What “technique” do you use to lure someone in?
** What’s “your” best way to start a conversation with a cute stranger?
** What “setting” do you feel most comfortable flirting with someone?
** And how would you react, what would you say if a very sexy stranger accidentally spills a drink on you?
** You’re having a conversation with someone quite hot at a party. What would you do to keep them interested?
Take the test to see “How Good a Flirt You Are“… add it to myspace, share it on Facebook, or if you have a BLOG or website you can also share “What Kind of Flirt You are” by copying and pasting the code at the end of the quiz.
Well, of course I am not going to tell you what kind of flirt I am.
