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Learn How to Handle Your Man

Posted by Viola

Learn How to Handle Your Man

I have something interesting for you to think about.

It’s about dating and relationship horror stories. Have you, or maybe women you know, had any, or even lots of them? Have you noticed if some of the same negative and/or limiting situations repeat themselves with different men?

Some examples:

= Have you ever experienced that a few dates with a man gone great, but after you have been ‘physical’ he has not called again?
= The closer you get physical and emotional to a man, the more distant he gets… maybe even scared before he finally pulls away?
= Shortly in to the relationship the connection fades away. The chemistry just disappears - and so does the man?

The same kinds of situations pop up over and over again for some women with different men. Why do some women attract the same kind of men in to their lives?

These are simply common situations with men. That’s the reality. BUT what about the women who end up in great relationships? Why don’t these situations happen to them and they have it so much easier with their partner?

The men they are with aren’t much different from other men. Of course, there are always the extreme examples such as players, the emotionally unhealthy or abusive men and so on… clearly, some men are better ‘relationship material’ than others. Yes, I mean the “good guys” that you meet and as soon as you meet them, you quickly know they’re ‘quality’ people. I guess that is part of the reason that it can be such a shock as well as upsetting when guys like this start performing and acting out some of these common negative male behaviours.

These negative situations as well as the behaviours do come up for most women… Yes, even women where you think that they are having close and loving relationships with great guys. There’s no “immunity” from the common male issues, situations and behaviours. Still, from what I hear there are lots of women who still end up in great relationships with men regardless of all the male behaviours that tear other couples apart.

I bet you wonder what the difference is.

The difference is in HOW women respond!

I am not trying to help men be lazy partners here, or get away with bad behaviour. And I am not saying that women should just accept it all and that men are excused from taking responsibility. What I am saying is that ‘smart’ women KNOW how to handle common challenges and issues that men confront them with. Where on the other hand women get absolutely preoccupied and overpowered emotionally by the same things, setting off total turmoil which quite often shows that it is the beginning of the end.

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