Some time ago I came across the article “Is Sex Necessary?”. Reading it again I can only say we all better “get on with it”.
Having regular as well as enthusiastic sex confers a host of measurable physiological advantages, no matter if you are male or female. Of course, that is assuming that you are engaging in sex without contracting a sexually transmitted disease.
Having sex even just a few times a week has an associative or connecting relationship with the following:
* Improved sense of smell
* Reduced risk of heart disease
* Weight loss, overall fitness
* Reduced depression
* Pain-relief
* Less-frequent colds and flu
* Better bladder control
* Better teeth
* Even a happier prostate?
Question is, is there such a thing as too much sex? In purely physiological terms, the answer is this: If you’re female, probably not. If you’re male? You betcha.
Advice on Relationships and Dating With Laura Love
Love-Quotes-and-Quotations.com brings you Laura Love who offers advice on relationships and also dating. Laura starts out with an inspirational quote and gives you some practical hints & tips for making it part of your life.
To right Zoë – we have more important things to do. This is very inspiring and reminded me not to put off things till tomorrow. What is it that you shouldn’t be putting off? Go and do what your heart desires.
Seize The Moment
The older I get, the more I believe in it. Do it now! Tomorrow may not come!
I have a friend who lives by a three-word philosophy: “Seize the moment.” Just possibly, she may be the wisest woman on this planet.
Too many people put off something that brings them joy just because they haven’t thought about it, don’t have it on their schedule, didn’t know it was coming or are too rigid to depart from their routine.
I got to thinking one day about all those women on the Titanic who passed up dessert at dinner that fateful night in an effort to cut back. From then on, I’ve tried to be a little more flexible.
How many women out there will eat at home because their husband didn’t suggest going out to dinner until after something had been thawed? Does the word “refrigeration” mean nothing to you?
How often have your kids dropped in to talk and sat in silence while you watched Jeopardy! on television?
I cannot count the times I called my sister and said, “How about going to lunch in a half hour?” She would gasp and stammer, “I can’t. I have clothes on the line. My hair is dirty. I wish I had known yesterday, I had a late breakfast, It looks like rain. And my personal favorite: “It’s Monday”. She died a few years ago. We never did have lunch together.
Because people cram so much into their lives, we tend to schedule our headaches. We live on a sparse diet of promises we make to ourselves when all the conditions are perfect:
We’ll go back and visit the grandparents when we get Stevie toilet-trained.
We’ll entertain-when we replace the living room carpet.
We’ll go on a second honeymoon when we get two more kids out of college.
Life has a way of accelerating as we get older. The days get shorter, and the list of promises to ourselves gets longer. One morning, we awaken, and all we have to show for our lives is a litany of “I’m going to,” “I plan on” and “Someday, when things are settled down a bit.”
When anyone calls my ‘seize the moment’ friend, she is open to adventure and available for trips. She keeps an open mind on new ideas. Her enthusiasm for life is contagious. You talk with her for five minutes, and you’re ready to trade your bad feet for a pair of Roller blades and skip an elevator for a bungee cord.
My lips have not touched ice cream in 10 years. I love ice cream. It’s just that I might as well apply it directly to my hips with a spatula and eliminate the digestive process. The other day, I stopped the car and bought a triple-decker. If my car had hit an iceberg on the way home, I would have died happy.
Now…go on and have a nice day. Do something you WANT to……not something on your SHOULD DO list.
If you were going to die soon and had only one phone call you could make, who would you call and what would you say?
And why are you waiting?
Make sure you read this to the end; you will understand why.
Have you ever watched kids playing on a merry go round Or listened to the rain lapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down Don’t dance so fast Time is short The music won’t last.
Do you run through each day on the fly?
When you ask “How are you?” Do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, Do you lie in your bed with the next hundred chores running through your head?
You’d better slow down. Don’t dance so fast. Time is short. The music won’t last.
Ever told your child, We’ll do it tomorrow And in your haste, not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch, Let a good friendship die. To call and say “Hi”?
You’d better slow down Don’t dance so fast. Time is short The music won’t last.
When you run so fast to get somewhere you miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day, It is like an unopened gift….Thrown away…
Life is not a race. Do take it slower. Hear the music Before the song is over.
‘Life may not be the party we hoped for… but while we are here we might as well dance!’
When you see love between two persons,
something is flowing, moving, changing.
When there is love between two persons
they live in an aura, there is a constant sharing.
Their vibrations are reaching to each other;
they are broadcasting their being to each other.
There is no wall between them, they are two
and yet not two — they are one also.” ~Osho~
Dr. Wayne Dyer | Treat what happens to you as a gift
Submitted by Sophia CcNolty, Calgary
Another quote to make you think. Isn’t it great what such a ‘little’ sentence has for an impact?
With everything that has happened to you, you can either feel sorry for yourself or treat what has happened as a gift. Everything is either an opportunity to grow or an obstacle to keep you from growing. You get to choose.
How Men Can Date Online Successfully
by Owen Jones
A lot of people have taken to online dating like ducks to water because it does work or, at least, it can do. Women are, more often, squeamish of meeting a man that they have been chatting to on the Internet.
All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what is a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.
You must be patient above all else. Do not press her for private data like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and amiable until she feels comfortable talking to you online. Don’t attempt to rush her into meeting you one on one. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.
Just be completely honest about what you look like and your job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on fabrication and deceit. Sooner or later, she will find out the truth anyway and then you are back to square one again.
They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. So an idea could be to post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body (clothed, not rude), not just of your head. After all. if you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she may like to bring a friend with her.
At the end of the day, you have nothing to hide, have you?. You have been truthful about yourself, and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. Therefore, the only thing left to do is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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Are you just plain fed up of using natural face moisturizers that promise a lot but deliver nothing? Don’t worry, you are not alone, there are thousand others just like you who are frantically looking for an effective natural face moisturizer.
Here is an article, which tells you the five effective ingredients that you cannot choose to ignore when it comes to skin care. These ingredients are powerful and safe. Powerful because they attack the root cause of the imperfection of the skin and safe because they are derived from natural sources and are not chemical based.
Therefore, without much ado, let us find out what these ingredients are and how their presence in a natural face moisturizer helps us in attaining a soft and smooth facial skin.
Avocado Oil – This is the oil extracted from the fruit of Avocado tree. It is a natural emollient, which helps in making skin soft and smooth. It is also a natural anti oxidant, which reduces the free radical activity inside the skin. Avocado Oil creates a thin protective layer on the skin that protects the skin from external dirt and grime and ultra violet rays of the sun.
Grapeseed Oil – As the name suggests it is extracted from the seeds of grapes. Again, this is also a natural anti oxidant, which helps in increasing the life of skin cells. It is also used to remove the scars and marks from the skin.
CynergyTK – This wonder ingredient is a patented one and is extracted from the wool of sheep found in New Zealand. It is deliberately kept in its bio available form so that human skin recognizes it easily and absorbs it. Its function is to provide natural peptides and amino acids to the skin so that it produces more natural collagen within the skin. Collagen, as you know, is the protein, which keeps skin smooth and wrinkle free.
Phytessence Wakame – Not many people are aware that Phytessence Wakame is extracted from an algae found in the coastal areas of Japan. People in Japan know the medicinal value of Phytessence Wakame, that is why they dry and eat it too. However, this ingredient is extremely beneficial for skin too. It helps in keeping skin cells young and healthy. It is the key ingredient, which gives a glow to the face.
So there you have it – four essential ingredients of a natural face moisturizer. These ingredients are a must if you are looking for quality results. Without these ingredients, you might spend money on any natural face moisturizer but you will not get the desired result.
Therefore, starting today, read the ingredients list to find out the natural ingredients that we just discussed and see the result for yourself in a couple of weeks.
Kerri Doyle is a researcher, consumer and advocate of natural skin care products. She shares her research into natural skin care health on her website Skin Health Solution.
To discover cutting edge, anti-aging skin care products she recommends after extensive research visit http://skinhealthsolution.com today.
Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
Talking dirty to men can be anything from giving him insults, vivid images using slang words, to whispering curse expressions to your guy\’s ear.
If you feel timid about it, don\’t be; only the two of you who will be aware of it.
The more you\’ll let go, the better you will be. Your couple\’s life should be hot and wild. It\’s a form of ‘sense of adventure’ that you are giving to your guy.
You might say that you are a ‘good girl’ and you don\’t do those things. Well here is my take on this; if you have preferences in bed, and your spouse is giving enough to fulfill them, maybe I can do my part.
Some guys find it makes them hornier. You can harvest the rewards from this lover\’s game. It makes you feel sexier because you are seeing your man enjoy himself due to your influence. You are providing your guy more excitement.
Lovemaking is at its best when you let go; abandon yourself to the other person is a joyful experience.
Some women use this not only in the bedroom, but in their husband\’s e-mail or work\’s voice mail.
Your guy gets excited to get home and gives you a nice ‘reward’.
What is the top thing to say when talking dirty to men?
1. Tell him what you\’re wearing under your clothing.
2. Put on sexy lingerie and give him a tiny peek when he first sees you. It\’ll drive him mad to want to see more of your outfit all night…until you allow him to see more.
3. Leave him a voice message when he is away
4. at a gathering
5. at your parent\’s house when you go by him
6. right before parting for work
7. Email him some sassy notes
8. Fax it to him
9. Throw hot little texts on his cell phone while is at a sports game with his buddies
It will heat up if you are talking dirty to men at unusual places like:
1. Your parent\’s house
2. at the food store
3. at church?…ok…ok…after church
When is the most excellent timing for this during lovemaking?
From the mid to the end.
You start by telling a physical move that he has made to you and that you had enjoyed. Don\’t worry about feeling embarrassed; he will be more paying attention in the images that you are creating in his imagination.
Are you concerned that you won\’t be excellent at this?
Guys are not hard to light up. It doesn\’t take a great deal for them to get turned on.
If you feel uncomfortable, get some help with a glass or two of wine… Just to break the ice. But please! Don\’t develop a drinking problem!
Having trouble ‘getting it up’? Talking dirty to men might be able to help.
Use this once in a while; they can get too enthusiastic to this. in addition, some men can be a bit turned off or uncomfortable with you unexpectedly starting to talk dirty to them.
You can propose to him to do the alike and it will balance the dynamics.
You can get swear words at the Urban dictionary. It is a slang dictionary. You\’ll be able to get different variations of a slang word.
For instance, let\’s find a variation of breast; there is boobie, nipples, boobs, funbags, just to show a few. Use it to your imagination. Have fun!
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