Love Affairs: What Would You Do?

Submitted by Evina

Love affairs. Who wants them? Only the phrase brings up all kinds of emotions in me.

Love affairs can be so many things, from wonderful to awful, from exciting to frightening, from glorious to hurtful.

For some love affairs can be the most destructive thing in the world, for others the most creative thing in the world.

Have you ever thought how it would be if no woman in the world would ever go out with a married man? And of course, same visa versa. I guess the divorce rate would drop drastically, don’t you think?

Question is, what makes us want to date someone who’s ‘taken’? Who’s already committed? Someone who’s married with a family? YES, someone who IS unavailable?

Is it the adventure? Romance? The excitement of something new? The thrill of the forbidden? Maybe even boredom and YES, is it just sex?

Where will it all end? And what about the many lives that can be destroyed? And even if it goes on for sometime and you get emotionally involved, your heart is on fire and than realise there is no future? Where will it leave you?

… and in the end were tears!…

…… Believe me, I KNOW what I’m talking about!…………

Click here and listen - Dixie Chicks: Not Ready To Make Nice

Love and Adore - Meet like minded Singles in the UK

I’m not sure what to think about dating online myself. I have a couple of friends who have met their partners online, so it does go to show that anything really works.

Love and Adore is a UK online dating service for those who are over 45 years of age. By dating online in your own relaxing surroundings, in privacy and comfort you may meet like-minded singles who are seeking the same things than you are. Who knows, with a few clicks you may even find your Soul mate.

For more information click on the link below:
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Are You Afraid of Commitment?

To take the test click here: Are You Afraid of Commitment?

It be nice if you shared your answers with us.

What Kind of Flirt are You?

** What “technique” do you use to lure someone in?
** What’s “your” best way to start a conversation with a cute stranger?
** What “setting” do you feel most comfortable flirting with someone?
** And how would you react, what would you say if a very sexy stranger accidentally spills a drink on you?
** You’re having a conversation with someone quite hot at a party. What would you do to keep them interested?

Take the test to see “How Good a Flirt You Are“… add it to myspace, share it on Facebook, or if you have a BLOG or website you can also share “What Kind of Flirt You are” by copying and pasting the code at the end of the quiz.

Well, of course I am not going to tell you what kind of flirt I am.

To join the quiz click on the link: “What Kind of Flirt are You?”

Law of Attraction Singles - Journey of Finding The Love of Your Life

I’ve had an e-mail today of Jonathon asking me to add the link of the www.lawofattractionsingles.com website and thought it may be a good idea. It looks like a pretty good site to me to make friends or even find the love of your life.

I was just going to add one thing. If you are sure and serious about meeting someone and having fun in doing so, than it may be an idea of adding a photo to your profile. Of course, a smiling one J It is easy to do and as you can imagine, members with photos get better responses as it is an easy way of showing prospective ‘mates’ your character as well as your personality. Not to mention that adding a picture creates a higher level of trust and kind of shows that you are serious and committed.

I know that some are worried about there ‘appearance’. But don’t worry, there is someone out there for everyone. We are all unique. We are all special and beautiful. People are attracted to a variety of characteristics. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

If you are interested and for more information click on the link below:
www.lawofattractionsingles.com

By the way, it be nice to hear from you to see what you think.

Marvin Gaye - Let’s Get It On

Hey, I admit it - this is REAL Making Love Music — awesome ….

Let’s get it on
Let’s get it on
You know what I’m talkin’ about
Come on baby, hey hey
Let your love come out
If you believe in love
Let’s get it on
Let’s get it on, baby
This minute, oh yeah
Let’s get it on
Please get it on

So come on, come on, come on, come on, come on darlin’
Stop beatin’ ’round the bush

Let your love come down
Get it on, come on baby

Dating and High School Love

David Spade — From his DVD entitled “Take the Hit”.

Well - as often is the case in comedy — there is a lot of TRUTH here

Girls Night Out

Newly single Mary Olson (Etta Devine) goes to the grocery store to find true love.

I don’t know if I should laugh or cry — the search for LOVE is never easy.

Tell me what you think

Written and directed by Gabriel Diani.

Shot and edited by Chad Meserve of Ludicrous Productions.

Learn How to Handle Your Man

I have something interesting for you to think about.

It’s about dating and relationship horror stories. Have you, or maybe women you know, had any, or even lots of them? Have you noticed if some of the same negative and/or limiting situations repeat themselves with different men?

Some examples:

= Have you ever experienced that a few dates with a man gone great, but after you have been ‘physical’ he has not called again?
= The closer you get physical and emotional to a man, the more distant he gets… maybe even scared before he finally pulls away?
= Shortly in to the relationship the connection fades away. The chemistry just disappears - and so does the man?

The same kinds of situations pop up over and over again for some women with different men. Why do some women attract the same kind of men in to their lives?

These are simply common situations with men. That’s the reality. BUT what about the women who end up in great relationships? Why don’t these situations happen to them and they have it so much easier with their partner?

The men they are with aren’t much different from other men. Of course, there are always the extreme examples such as players, the emotionally unhealthy or abusive men and so on… clearly, some men are better ‘relationship material’ than others. Yes, I mean the “good guys” that you meet and as soon as you meet them, you quickly know they’re ‘quality’ people. I guess that is part of the reason that it can be such a shock as well as upsetting when guys like this start performing and acting out some of these common negative male behaviours.

These negative situations as well as the behaviours do come up for most women… Yes, even women where you think that they are having close and loving relationships with great guys. There’s no “immunity” from the common male issues, situations and behaviours. Still, from what I hear there are lots of women who still end up in great relationships with men regardless of all the male behaviours that tear other couples apart.

I bet you wonder what the difference is.

The difference is in HOW women respond!

I am not trying to help men be lazy partners here, or get away with bad behaviour. And I am not saying that women should just accept it all and that men are excused from taking responsibility. What I am saying is that ‘smart’ women KNOW how to handle common challenges and issues that men confront them with. Where on the other hand women get absolutely preoccupied and overpowered emotionally by the same things, setting off total turmoil which quite often shows that it is the beginning of the end.

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You Are Not Alone!

What Men Say, BUT Don’t Really Mean

We all know that men are well known for their straight talking and also for their tell-it-like-it-is-attitude.

But there are also times when ‘YOU gentlemen’ say things that you don’t really mean. And most of these things get you (or have got you) into “serious” trouble. It is imprinted in your DNA and you try and protect your manliness whatever the price……

Let me see and investigate what the most common things you say are and NOT even mean!

Here goes:

>> A discussion comes up about a movie. You haven’t seen it. But you try and blag your way through the discussion where you don’t know NOTHING at all about the film, the cast or even the plot. What is this….? Does it really matter if you can join in to the talk?

>> There he is again, the annoying Pratt from school. He has always been an all around ‘nice’ guy. He was the sports star. The womaniser…they ALL loved him… But you got to be ‘friendly’ don’t you, so you say: “Hi there, let me know when you are free, we need to catch up over a pint soon“. Well, best timing is when hell freezes over.

>> … this is a REAL classic: “Hi Lads, tonight I am only having one drink and then I am off ” - well, I think that most men are incapable of having JUST one drink. Before you know it, you join in to the karaoke madness. Enter an arm-wrestling competition… to end up in the toilet for a “quickie” with the porky barmaid… REMEMBER, that was the one you swore you could never touch!!!

>> Than you come up with the “I want to learn a new language” before? As if! Lets face it, most people have problems to speak proper Queen’s English (places like Facebook and things like mobile phones have only made it worse) and simply, you are not going to become the voice of your generation JUST because you speak two or more languages!

>> … “If you don’t stop it, I call the police”! - Don’t you already know that won’t happen? There be to many questions, to much paperwork, to many repeats of details…so you just leave it…

>> …and there we go… ”I promise, I’ll pay you back” - Honest? There is half a truth here. The intention is there and if you are lucky, you will get it back.

>> … hey! Who are you trying to kid by saying “ Oh, she is just a friend.”… It’s bloody obvious, she is a REAL HOT, BIG BREASTED, NYMPHOMANIAC friend…she is sex on legs.

>> … and than there is “Just for a few seconds, let’s put the tip in to see how it feels”. Yeah right! Isn’t this the usual level of practise for ‘deflowering’ women all over the world? And don’t fool yourself by convincing yourself that there could have been a point of return when you planned to say, “well, ok, it’s not really working for me…to pull it out and get dressed again.

>> “WOW!!!! Is this your new girlfriend? She is gorgeous mate” - to be honest, what else can you say when you are ‘desperate’ since the love in your life ’dropped’ you like a hot potato for a new love… maybe her personal trainer?

>> … and how about this one: “I am sorry, but it’s not you, it’s me!” - Isn’t this the biggest lie ever uttered by men? Have you not worked out that even women are using it now as a way to dump you? The truth being, it is you, but I really no one wants to hurt your feelings. Of course, usually they won’t say, you are to fat, you moan to much, you are crap in bed…and just look at your friends, they are hot stuff… and if only you wouldn’t smell so bad!

>> You are out to eat and than what do you do when ordering your meal? You say “What is the hottest curry on your menu? - and I want it NOW!” - THAT IS DESPERATE! You think you are showing manliness? But all you do is trying to convince yourself that shoving down the vindaloo is the BEST way to make sure to show your male dominance.

>> … there is a loop-hole in the dating system that men are very aware off for years. They like bragging about the shagging in the back of the car. But they say “ I am definitely not like the other guys. I never kiss and tell.” - of course, the last thing they like to brag about is kissing…how BORING!

I am sure I have missed out on a thing or two, so please leave your comment ( both gents and ladies ) and we will add it to the list.