David Spade – Dating

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Dating and High School Love

David Spade — From his DVD entitled “Take the Hit”.

Well – as often is the case in comedy — there is a lot of TRUTH here

Girls Night Out, Looking For Love At The Grocery Store

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Girls Night Out

Newly single Mary Olson (Etta Devine) goes to the grocery store to find true love.

I don’t know if I should laugh or cry — the search for LOVE is never easy.

Tell me what you think

Written and directed by Gabriel Diani.

Shot and edited by Chad Meserve of Ludicrous Productions.

Learn How to Handle Your Man

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Learn How to Handle Your Man

I have something interesting for you to think about.

It’s about dating and relationship horror stories. Have you, or maybe women you know, had any, or even lots of them? Have you noticed if some of the same negative and/or limiting situations repeat themselves with different men?

Some examples:

= Have you ever experienced that a few dates with a man gone great, but after you have been ‘physical’ he has not called again?
= The closer you get physical and emotional to a man, the more distant he gets… maybe even scared before he finally pulls away?
= Shortly in to the relationship the connection fades away. The chemistry just disappears – and so does the man?

The same kinds of situations pop up over and over again for some women with different men. Why do some women attract the same kind of men in to their lives?

These are simply common situations with men. That’s the reality. BUT what about the women who end up in great relationships? Why don’t these situations happen to them and they have it so much easier with their partner?

The men they are with aren’t much different from other men. Of course, there are always the extreme examples such as players, the emotionally unhealthy or abusive men and so on… clearly, some men are better ‘relationship material’ than others. Yes, I mean the “good guys” that you meet and as soon as you meet them, you quickly know they’re ‘quality’ people. I guess that is part of the reason that it can be such a shock as well as upsetting when guys like this start performing and acting out some of these common negative male behaviours.

These negative situations as well as the behaviours do come up for most women… Yes, even women where you think that they are having close and loving relationships with great guys. There’s no “immunity” from the common male issues, situations and behaviours. Still, from what I hear there are lots of women who still end up in great relationships with men regardless of all the male behaviours that tear other couples apart.

I bet you wonder what the difference is.

The difference is in HOW women respond!

I am not trying to help men be lazy partners here, or get away with bad behaviour. And I am not saying that women should just accept it all and that men are excused from taking responsibility. What I am saying is that ‘smart’ women KNOW how to handle common challenges and issues that men confront them with. Where on the other hand women get absolutely preoccupied and overpowered emotionally by the same things, setting off total turmoil which quite often shows that it is the beginning of the end.

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What Men Say, BUT Don’t Really Mean

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What Men Say, BUT Don’t Really Mean

We all know that men are well known for their straight talking and also for their tell-it-like-it-is-attitude.

But there are also times when ‘YOU gentlemen’ say things that you don’t really mean. And most of these things get you (or have got you) into “serious” trouble. It is imprinted in your DNA and you try and protect your manliness whatever the price……

Let me see and investigate what the most common things you say are and NOT even mean!

Here goes:

>> A discussion comes up about a movie. You haven’t seen it. But you try and blag your way through the discussion where you don’t know NOTHING at all about the film, the cast or even the plot. What is this….? Does it really matter if you can join in to the talk?

>> There he is again, the annoying Pratt from school. He has always been an all around ‘nice’ guy. He was the sports star. The womaniser…they ALL loved him… But you got to be ‘friendly’ don’t you, so you say: “Hi there, let me know when you are free, we need to catch up over a pint soon“. Well, best timing is when hell freezes over.

>> … this is a REAL classic: “Hi Lads, tonight I am only having one drink and then I am off ” – well, I think that most men are incapable of having JUST one drink. Before you know it, you join in to the karaoke madness. Enter an arm-wrestling competition… to end up in the toilet for a “quickie” with the porky barmaid… REMEMBER, that was the one you swore you could never touch!!!

>> Than you come up with the “I want to learn a new language” before? As if! Lets face it, most people have problems to speak proper Queen’s English (places like Facebook and things like mobile phones have only made it worse) and simply, you are not going to become the voice of your generation JUST because you speak two or more languages!

>> … “If you don’t stop it, I call the police”! – Don’t you already know that won’t happen? There be to many questions, to much paperwork, to many repeats of details…so you just leave it…

>> …and there we go… ”I promise, I’ll pay you back” – Honest? There is half a truth here. The intention is there and if you are lucky, you will get it back.

>> … hey! Who are you trying to kid by saying “ Oh, she is just a friend.”… It’s bloody obvious, she is a REAL HOT, BIG BREASTED, NYMPHOMANIAC friend…she is sex on legs.

>> … and than there is “Just for a few seconds, let’s put the tip in to see how it feels”. Yeah right! Isn’t this the usual level of practise for ‘deflowering’ women all over the world? And don’t fool yourself by convincing yourself that there could have been a point of return when you planned to say, “well, ok, it’s not really working for me…to pull it out and get dressed again.

>> “WOW!!!! Is this your new girlfriend? She is gorgeous mate” – to be honest, what else can you say when you are ‘desperate’ since the love in your life ’dropped’ you like a hot potato for a new love… maybe her personal trainer?

>> … and how about this one: “I am sorry, but it’s not you, it’s me!” – Isn’t this the biggest lie ever uttered by men? Have you not worked out that even women are using it now as a way to dump you? The truth being, it is you, but I really no one wants to hurt your feelings. Of course, usually they won’t say, you are to fat, you moan to much, you are crap in bed…and just look at your friends, they are hot stuff… and if only you wouldn’t smell so bad!

>> You are out to eat and than what do you do when ordering your meal? You say “What is the hottest curry on your menu? – and I want it NOW!” – THAT IS DESPERATE! You think you are showing manliness? But all you do is trying to convince yourself that shoving down the vindaloo is the BEST way to make sure to show your male dominance.

>> … there is a loop-hole in the dating system that men are very aware off for years. They like bragging about the shagging in the back of the car. But they say “ I am definitely not like the other guys. I never kiss and tell.” – of course, the last thing they like to brag about is kissing…how BORING!

I am sure I have missed out on a thing or two, so please leave your comment ( both gents and ladies ) and we will add it to the list.