Do Pregnant Women Have Better Sex and Orgasms?

Posted by Luvy Love

Do Pregnant Women Have Better Sex and Orgasms?

To me pregnancy is amongst the most sensual, sexual time in a woman’s life, but not many think “orgasmic” when they see a pregnant woman in all her “belly beauty“.

Did you know that pregnant women often top the list of expressing lustfully sexual desires? Increased sexual appetite? And also intensity? Quite often that comes as a surprise to their partner’s delight or even confusion with every “ripening” day.

After all, us women ‘suffer’ from hormones during that time. Most of us are blessed with better hair and skin and it makes us feel more gorgeous than it ever has. Well, it certainly has had that effect on me many years ago.

A lot of women experience increased sexual urges during their first or even their second part of their pregnancy for reasons beyond their control and mother nature is speeding up a woman’s sex drive. Vaginal lubrication increases. Breasts get larger. And not to forget the flow of blood to the genitals increases for heightened sensitivity. The woman literally becomes a “passion playground” for herself and her partner.

In a pregnant woman’s third part of pregnancy, her dream state changes. Dreams may increase and may even become more of sexual nature. More erotic… more physical… more varied… sleep becomes lighter, which makes it easier to remember and recall dreams, visions and also her nocturnal orgasm(s). And of course, sharing her nightly “visions” with her other half could be the cause for even more ‘real life action’.

Feeling more sexy, the increased genital blood flow, greater sensitivity of the vulva and not to forget unexpected fantasies add to a more orgasmic woman. It may even be that this is the time where some women experience spontaneous multiple orgasms during love making.

During pregnancy, many couples experience some of their most intense love-making. Sex is a way of staying connected. Both physically and emotionally, which is crucial factor during this time. Mutual happiness tends to decrease post-birth and as sexual intimacy is the most vulnerable area, staying intimate makes couples feel closer and they also more easily re-connect post-partum.

Go on, make the most of it!

When Love-Making Becomes a Habit

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When Love-Making Becomes a Habit

We are creatures of habit and that even includes most of what we do sexually. That means that also the way we make love becomes a habit. We do it the same way, same positions and even on the same days. For most people sex has become a ‘goal-orientated’ activity. With the goal being the Orgasm. But we lose out on the pleasure along the way, as we get so lost in rushing to get there.

We could really get involved with our partner, if we took the Orgasm completely out of the equation, stopped being so concerned and hung-up with the end result, and if we were fully present, the pleasure we could get from that would be so much greater and the intimacy would be so much deeper.

You just think, sex with the lights off. How intimate can you be? Or how intimate can you be when your eyes are closed and you are lost in some kind of fantasy? In those moments, how connected are you really to your partner?

I am not suggesting that you don’t have Orgasms. Far from it. It is quite simple. I am suggesting to be fully present with your partner. Acknowledge the love you share and acknowledge each other. During lovemaking look into each others eyes. It kind of ‘forces’ you to be fully in the moment with your partner. I am sure you have heard the expression “the eyes are the windows to the soul“. Therefore looking into each others eyes gives you both the opportunity to share a soul connection. By doing that, you go beyond the physical into something deep and far more special.