Don’t we all have the right to choose and to define our own boundaries in this area?
When I was quite young, I tried avoiding hugging whenever it was possible and that even includes family gatherings.
How little did I know – I wasn’t even old enough to consider what situations may transpire before I hug a…boy. And hugging girls? No chance. Just forget it!
Years and years later I learned to enjoy the openness, the honesty of embracing the once you love, family, friends and yes, even the once who “needed” it – no matter if male or female. Even if only for a few minutes, most of the time hugs are a non-sexual way of joining, of supporting, of giving and receiving, of becoming one.
For sure, there are different kinds of hugs, just as there are without doubt many kinds of different kisses. It all depends on the intention. There are hugs and kisses, hot passionate clinches or a squeeze of someone’s shoulder and even just friendly pats on the back. A-Frames, melding hugs, quick hugs and hugs that stay with you for longer… and make you sigh…and there are also some of us who love hugging trees (me included). The hug is a form of for example caring, connection, greeting, farewell, affection, affirmation, gratitude, very different from culture to culture.
For some of us hugging requires a leap of faith, an act of courage. They are quick to reach out and offer one of these handshakes that range from the tepid fingertip hold to iron grasp…well, at a distance anyway. For reasons of their own some of us stay uncomfortable with hugging in particular when it comes to the opposite (or same for that matter) gender.
Sometimes, a hug is all what we need and not so long ago “Juan Mann” conducted a daring experiment offering “Hugs for Free”. It was his sole mission to reach out, hug a stranger and brighten up their lives. In these days of social disconnectivity and lack of human contact, the effects of the Free Hugs campaign became phenomenal.
I am sure that most have watched the video, but for those that haven’t, witness the true spirit of humanity coming together in what can only be described as awe inspiring.
Yesterday in a conversation with my close friend the word LOVE kept coming up.
“Love, what is it anyway?”
We agreed that love couldn’t really be measured by anything or be seen and as it is an exceptional force, it has the power to transform anyone’s life in a blink of an eye.
Everyone needs love and it can equally be given to anyone – the rich as well as the poor, regardless of age, gender, race or physical ability. There is enough available and we can give it freely to all.
Much of our time we waste on things instead of the people we love as well as missing the chance to express it. We have regrets – but we can’t turn back the clock.
How about showing someone you feel love for in your heart (in the best way you know how) that you love them?
Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
Talking dirty to men can be anything from giving him insults, vivid images using slang words, to whispering curse expressions to your guy\’s ear.
If you feel timid about it, don\’t be; only the two of you who will be aware of it.
The more you\’ll let go, the better you will be. Your couple\’s life should be hot and wild. It\’s a form of ‘sense of adventure’ that you are giving to your guy.
You might say that you are a ‘good girl’ and you don\’t do those things. Well here is my take on this; if you have preferences in bed, and your spouse is giving enough to fulfill them, maybe I can do my part.
Some guys find it makes them hornier. You can harvest the rewards from this lover\’s game. It makes you feel sexier because you are seeing your man enjoy himself due to your influence. You are providing your guy more excitement.
Lovemaking is at its best when you let go; abandon yourself to the other person is a joyful experience.
Some women use this not only in the bedroom, but in their husband\’s e-mail or work\’s voice mail.
Your guy gets excited to get home and gives you a nice ‘reward’.
What is the top thing to say when talking dirty to men?
1. Tell him what you\’re wearing under your clothing.
2. Put on sexy lingerie and give him a tiny peek when he first sees you. It\’ll drive him mad to want to see more of your outfit all night…until you allow him to see more.
3. Leave him a voice message when he is away
4. at a gathering
5. at your parent\’s house when you go by him
6. right before parting for work
7. Email him some sassy notes
8. Fax it to him
9. Throw hot little texts on his cell phone while is at a sports game with his buddies
It will heat up if you are talking dirty to men at unusual places like:
1. Your parent\’s house
2. at the food store
3. at church?…ok…ok…after church
When is the most excellent timing for this during lovemaking?
From the mid to the end.
You start by telling a physical move that he has made to you and that you had enjoyed. Don\’t worry about feeling embarrassed; he will be more paying attention in the images that you are creating in his imagination.
Are you concerned that you won\’t be excellent at this?
Guys are not hard to light up. It doesn\’t take a great deal for them to get turned on.
If you feel uncomfortable, get some help with a glass or two of wine… Just to break the ice. But please! Don\’t develop a drinking problem!
Having trouble ‘getting it up’? Talking dirty to men might be able to help.
Use this once in a while; they can get too enthusiastic to this. in addition, some men can be a bit turned off or uncomfortable with you unexpectedly starting to talk dirty to them.
You can propose to him to do the alike and it will balance the dynamics.
You can get swear words at the Urban dictionary. It is a slang dictionary. You\’ll be able to get different variations of a slang word.
For instance, let\’s find a variation of breast; there is boobie, nipples, boobs, funbags, just to show a few. Use it to your imagination. Have fun!
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Here is a list of how to say “I Love You” in different languages. Of course, there must be more ways, so feel free to add to the list.
Afrikaans – Ek het jou lief
Albanian – Te dua
Arabic – Ana behibak (to a male)
Arabic – Ana behibek (to a female)
Armenian – Yes kez sirumen
Bambara – M’bi fe
Bangla – Aamee tuma ke bhalo aashi
Belarusian – Ya tabe kahayu
Bisaya – Nahigugma ako kanimo
Bulgarian – Obicham te
Cambodian – Soro lahn nhee ah
Cantonese Chinese – Ngo oiy ney a
Catalan – T’estimo
Cherokee – Tsi ge yu i
Cheyenne – Ne mohotatse
Chichewa – Ndimakukonda
Corsican – Ti tengu caru (to a male)
Creol – Mi aime jou
Croatian – Volim te
Czech – Miluji te
Danish – Jeg Elsker Dig
Dutch – Ik hou van jou
English – I love you
Esperanto – Mi amas vin
Estonian – Ma armastan sind
Ethiopian – Afgreki’
Faroese – Eg elski teg
Farsi – Doset daram
Filipino – Mahal kita
Finnish – Mina rakastan sinua
French – Je t’aime, Je t’adore
Frisian – Ik hâld fan dy
Gaelic – Ta gra agam ort
Georgian – Mikvarhar
German – Ich liebe dich
Greek – S’agapo
Gujarati – Hoo thunay prem karoo choo
Hiligaynon – Palangga ko ikaw
Hawaiian – Aloha Au Ia`oe
Hebrew – Ani ohev otah (to a female)
Hebrew – Ani ohev et otha (to a male)
Hiligaynon – Guina higugma ko ikaw
Hindi – Hum Tumhe Pyar Karte hae
Hmong – Kuv hlub koj
Hopi – Nu’ umi unangwa’ta
Hungarian – Szeretlek
Icelandic – Eg elska tig
Ilonggo – Palangga ko ikaw
Indonesian – Saya cinta padamu
Inuit – Negligevapse
Irish – Taim i’ ngra leat
Italian – Ti amo
Japanese – Aishiteru
Kannada – Naanu ninna preetisuttene
Kapampangan – Kaluguran daka
Kiswahili – Nakupenda
Konkani – Tu magel moga cho
Korean – Sarang Heyo
Latin – Te amo
Latvian – Es tevi miilu
Lebanese – Bahibak
Lithuanian – Tave myliu
Luxembourgeois – Ech hun dech gäer
Malay – Saya cintakan mu / Aku cinta padamu
Malayalam – Njan Ninne Premikunnu
Mandarin Chinese – Wo ai ni
Marathi – Me tula prem karto
Mohawk – Kanbhik
Moroccan – Ana moajaba bik
Nahuatl – Ni mits neki
Navaho – Ayor anosh’ni
Norwegian – Jeg Elsker Deg
Pandacan – Syota na kita!!
Pangasinan – Inaru Taka
Papiamento – Mi ta stimabo
Persian – Doo-set daaram
Pig Latin – Iay ovlay ouyay
Polish – Kocham Ciebie
Portuguese – Eu te amo
Romanian – Te iubesc
Russian – Ya tebya liubliu
Scot Gaelic – Tha gra\dh agam ort
Serbian – Volim te
Setswana – Ke a go rata
Sindhi – Maa tokhe pyar kendo ahyan
Sioux – Techihhila
Slovak – Lu`bim ta
Slovenian – Ljubim te
Spanish – Te quiero / Te amo
Swahili – Ninapenda wewe
Swedish – Jag alskar dig
Swiss-German – Ich lieb Di
Surinam – Mi lobi joe
Tagalog – Mahal kita
Taiwanese – Wa ga ei li
Tahitian – Ua Here Vau Ia Oe
Tamil – Nan unnai kathalikaraen
Telugu – Nenu ninnu premistunnanu
Thai – Chan rak khun (to a male)
Thai – Phom rak khun (to a female)
Turkish – Seni Seviyorum
Ukrainian – Ya tebe kahayu
Urdu – mai aap say pyaar karta hoo
Vietnamese – Anh ye^u em (to a female)
Vietnamese – Em ye^u anh (to a male)
Welsh – ‘Rwy’n dy garu di
Yiddish – Ikh hob dikh
Yoruba – Mo ni fe