The Man Who Didn’t Believe In Love – by Don Miguel Ruiz
I really enjoyed listening to this, especially as it actually explained a few things about the relationship I was in for over 8 years not so long ago. Similarities I tell you. Realtionships. Actually very simple really.
Sit back, listen and see what you think. You may find some similarities if not answers that surprise you.
Now, lets see if you’re an addict!
The Man Who Didn’t Believe In Love – by Don Miguel Ruiz
Some time ago I came across the article “Is Sex Necessary?”. Reading it again I can only say we all better “get on with it”.
Having regular as well as enthusiastic sex confers a host of measurable physiological advantages, no matter if you are male or female. Of course, that is assuming that you are engaging in sex without contracting a sexually transmitted disease.
Having sex even just a few times a week has an associative or connecting relationship with the following:
* Improved sense of smell
* Reduced risk of heart disease
* Weight loss, overall fitness
* Reduced depression
* Pain-relief
* Less-frequent colds and flu
* Better bladder control
* Better teeth
* Even a happier prostate?
Question is, is there such a thing as too much sex? In purely physiological terms, the answer is this: If you’re female, probably not. If you’re male? You betcha.
How Men Can Date Online Successfully
by Owen Jones
A lot of people have taken to online dating like ducks to water because it does work or, at least, it can do. Women are, more often, squeamish of meeting a man that they have been chatting to on the Internet.
All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen and, I must say that they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what is a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.
You must be patient above all else. Do not press her for private data like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and amiable until she feels comfortable talking to you online. Don’t attempt to rush her into meeting you one on one. She will only think that you are desperate or a pervert. Be patient, patient, patient!.
Just be completely honest about what you look like and your job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on fabrication and deceit. Sooner or later, she will find out the truth anyway and then you are back to square one again.
They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. So an idea could be to post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body (clothed, not rude), not just of your head. After all. if you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she may like to bring a friend with her.
At the end of the day, you have nothing to hide, have you?. You have been truthful about yourself, and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. Therefore, the only thing left to do is to make her feel safe meeting you.
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Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
Talking dirty to men can be anything from giving him insults, vivid images using slang words, to whispering curse expressions to your guy\’s ear.
If you feel timid about it, don\’t be; only the two of you who will be aware of it.
The more you\’ll let go, the better you will be. Your couple\’s life should be hot and wild. It\’s a form of ‘sense of adventure’ that you are giving to your guy.
You might say that you are a ‘good girl’ and you don\’t do those things. Well here is my take on this; if you have preferences in bed, and your spouse is giving enough to fulfill them, maybe I can do my part.
Some guys find it makes them hornier. You can harvest the rewards from this lover\’s game. It makes you feel sexier because you are seeing your man enjoy himself due to your influence. You are providing your guy more excitement.
Lovemaking is at its best when you let go; abandon yourself to the other person is a joyful experience.
Some women use this not only in the bedroom, but in their husband\’s e-mail or work\’s voice mail.
Your guy gets excited to get home and gives you a nice ‘reward’.
What is the top thing to say when talking dirty to men?
1. Tell him what you\’re wearing under your clothing.
2. Put on sexy lingerie and give him a tiny peek when he first sees you. It\’ll drive him mad to want to see more of your outfit all night…until you allow him to see more.
3. Leave him a voice message when he is away
4. at a gathering
5. at your parent\’s house when you go by him
6. right before parting for work
7. Email him some sassy notes
8. Fax it to him
9. Throw hot little texts on his cell phone while is at a sports game with his buddies
It will heat up if you are talking dirty to men at unusual places like:
1. Your parent\’s house
2. at the food store
3. at church?…ok…ok…after church
When is the most excellent timing for this during lovemaking?
From the mid to the end.
You start by telling a physical move that he has made to you and that you had enjoyed. Don\’t worry about feeling embarrassed; he will be more paying attention in the images that you are creating in his imagination.
Are you concerned that you won\’t be excellent at this?
Guys are not hard to light up. It doesn\’t take a great deal for them to get turned on.
If you feel uncomfortable, get some help with a glass or two of wine… Just to break the ice. But please! Don\’t develop a drinking problem!
Having trouble ‘getting it up’? Talking dirty to men might be able to help.
Use this once in a while; they can get too enthusiastic to this. in addition, some men can be a bit turned off or uncomfortable with you unexpectedly starting to talk dirty to them.
You can propose to him to do the alike and it will balance the dynamics.
You can get swear words at the Urban dictionary. It is a slang dictionary. You\’ll be able to get different variations of a slang word.
For instance, let\’s find a variation of breast; there is boobie, nipples, boobs, funbags, just to show a few. Use it to your imagination. Have fun!
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Although I have left my relationship last year November (2008), one would think that after over a year of single life that things become easier and if not, at least that they are at least getting easier.
“BIG SIGH”
IF only they had… what a dissapointment…
Yes of course, I have my good and bad days and yes, of course, I have more ‘good’ days, but the last two days have been all else BUT‘good’ days.
Maybe it has to do with listening to the words of ‘old’ songs whilst driving? Is it the festive season? Cold, cozy nights indoors? Or is it the end of another year? Who knows? For sure I am going through some emotional turmoil. Dialogue in my head. Questioning my decision and yes, even chest-pain.
What it is about him? I have left after almost 8 years? Am I still missing him? Am I missing his arms around me? Smelling his After-Shave? Listening to his voice? … and yes… there is also his kiss… am I missing it and the rest of it? …
But all I know is that as much as I want to be with him, as much I DON’T really want to be with him… Maybe I should just enter a new relationship? Or would it be ‘wrong’?
Love affairs. Who wants them? Only the phrase brings up all kinds of emotions in me.
Love affairs can be so many things, from wonderful to awful, from exciting to frightening, from glorious to hurtful.
For some love affairs can be the most destructive thing in the world, for others the most creative thing in the world.
Have you ever thought how it would be if no woman in the world would ever go out with a married man? And of course, same visa versa. I guess the divorce rate would drop drastically, don’t you think?
Question is, what makes us want to date someone who’s ‘taken’? Who’s already committed? Someone who’s married with a family? YES, someone who IS unavailable?
Is it the adventure? Romance? The excitement of something new? The thrill of the forbidden? Maybe even boredom and YES, is it just sex?
Where will it all end? And what about the many lives that can be destroyed? And even if it goes on for sometime and you get emotionally involved, your heart is on fire and than realise there is no future? Where will it leave you?
Just to remind you, trust IS the basis of a good relationship. The nature of the ties don’t matter, be it boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, friends, siblings, neighbours, fellow workers, parents etc. You have to have some measure of trust with others to have the ability to get on well with them.
Sad but true, but this is really the point most men don’t grasp. Most males expect to ’run’ a relationship on their terms. When, where, what, how and not to forget the time here, HE determines when he had enough.
If you doubt him, he doesn’t support you, doesn’t re-assure you – no, he gets moody, calls you insecure and yes, he calls you needy. Where all you want is take part in his day, share what he’s been doing, support him, be there with love and understanding. You doubt him because of what he says and what he doesn’t say. And the distrust creeps in.
So how do you trust a man who talks about other people, even friends, but he never takes you to meet them?
How do you trust a man who swears his love to you, but he can’t introduce you to his family?
And how do you trust a man who just appears to be interested in your body? Having a fun time between the sheets and doesn’t desire to go out with you?
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I’m not sure what to think about dating online myself. I have a couple of friends who have met their partners online, so it does go to show that anything really works.
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